Dear Friend,
Start here.
If this is your first visit, the fastest way to get the lay of the land is to do these three things, in this order:
1. Read Letter #1. Even if you don't have the symptom it describes — the 4 a.m. wake-up — the mechanism it explains is the foundation underneath almost every other letter on the site. About 13 minutes.
2. Read “How I Got Here.” If you want to know who's behind the letters before you keep reading. Some women want this before Letter #1; some want it after. Either order is fine.
3. Follow on Instagram. The site publishes long-form letters. The daily conversation — the small notes, the “here's the study I read this morning,” the “a woman wrote me this” — lives on Instagram. If letters land, that's where the relationship lives day to day.
If you ever feel lost on the site, the full library is at /letters. There aren't 200 of them yet. There will be eventually.
— Marlowe